tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post1303916834013643944..comments2024-03-19T14:26:28.047-05:00Comments on Mildred Ratched Memoirs: A FUNNY THING HAPPENEDMildred Ratched http://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-23355667369962666422010-04-16T11:54:09.244-05:002010-04-16T11:54:09.244-05:00Something, sadly to say I think I'm doomed to ...Something, sadly to say I think I'm doomed to behave myself for my mid-life crisis because I can't come up with any ideas I haven't done already.<br /><br />Uro-spo, the search ended about 5 years ago and what remains is just residual bitching.Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-37901134570452124642010-04-11T00:36:32.760-05:002010-04-11T00:36:32.760-05:00I wish some of the married people out here would t...I wish some of the married people out here would tell me the secret of success, longevity and of finding the right match for myself and where to search<br /><br />I suggest you literally stop searching; go do your life, your interests, your travels - invariably you stumble onto someone, usually when you are least wanting to.<br />Most relationships I know tell me this is how it began, by chance when they were not looking.Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-35244229562109547562010-04-10T03:02:40.539-05:002010-04-10T03:02:40.539-05:00My mid life crisis was to dye my hair purple. Of c...My mid life crisis was to dye my hair purple. Of course it was during Halloween, so I'm not sure that counts. And, I was only 46 at the time.<br />I don't know you at all so I find it difficult to weigh in here. But the people you have commenting makes some wonderful points and they are all offering you their support.<br />All I can say is that I like you that's why I visit your blog all the time.<br />I also want to say that I too, if I had to do it all over again, would probably go it alone. I miss the old me sometimes and the freedom to walk out the door and do the things I want are not that easy now being married with children. I have no regrets, I just miss - sometimes - what once was.<br />Perhaps it is just a question of what makes any of us happy? In general I think we are just hard to please, married or single. Human nature and all.Something Happened Somewhere Turninghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17897631770669843340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-12575956624253785242010-04-09T15:50:55.719-05:002010-04-09T15:50:55.719-05:00Ur-spo, does it mean 35 year old stud muffins?Ur-spo, does it mean 35 year old stud muffins?Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-71667444274092148582010-04-09T00:31:43.398-05:002010-04-09T00:31:43.398-05:00midlife crisis is nature's' way to say ...midlife crisis is nature's' way to say 'look inward, you have entered the sunset part of life; what should you do before the end?" and that don't mean sports cars!Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-64002715498801587792010-04-08T14:10:00.600-05:002010-04-08T14:10:00.600-05:00Laoch, I think you're absolutely right.Laoch, I think you're absolutely right.Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-51482753092049966122010-04-08T00:21:41.027-05:002010-04-08T00:21:41.027-05:00I think finding a compatible person is often about...I think finding a compatible person is often about luck and giving yourself a lot of opportunities. One cannot control the first but one can try to influence the second.Sultanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506141014376919585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-3396268543499683372010-04-07T23:46:29.413-05:002010-04-07T23:46:29.413-05:00With my luck what I get will probably be a root ca...With my luck what I get will probably be a root canal!Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-64893311252426269002010-04-07T23:12:18.236-05:002010-04-07T23:12:18.236-05:00Jnuts, I know this is probably just another "...Jnuts, I know this is probably just another "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence"....but you know, sometimes I really do wonder if something is wrong with me that someone as intelligent as I am could never find someone to share life's ups and downs with. Maybe I get bored too easily...maybe I give up too soon...maybe I have gotten too scared to throw myself wholeheartedly into the pond again to swim amongst the frogs. Geez, I can't believe I've been celibate for 5 years! Hey, perhaps I really do need to become a nun.<br /><br />Margie, hope springs eternal and with friends like you pulling for me I'm sure I'll get something!Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-74211703729880758322010-04-07T18:21:37.432-05:002010-04-07T18:21:37.432-05:0040C....What the heck...You always get everything.....40C....What the heck...You always get everything.....And I'm sure you will get your man....I love you my friend.Margiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10132427954728421632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-61022184750835428962010-04-07T17:18:23.003-05:002010-04-07T17:18:23.003-05:00*remain*remainjnutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348848857787520233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-82683811078461140452010-04-07T17:17:44.353-05:002010-04-07T17:17:44.353-05:00I wish I had answers for you. I have none. Most of...I wish I had answers for you. I have none. Most of the time I wonder why anyone would want to spend a lifetime with another person. <br /><br />I'd rather have a strong, lifelong relationship with a friend than some emotional rollercoaster with a partner. Sex seems to ruin most everything in the end.<br /><br />If I had it to do over again, I would reamin single. I wonder why loving yourself and being alone isn't enough for most?<br /><br />There's nothing wrong with you, Karen. I'm no expert by any means, but unconditional love seems something left best to children and pets.jnutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348848857787520233noreply@blogger.com