tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post4122690185846534640..comments2024-03-19T14:26:28.047-05:00Comments on Mildred Ratched Memoirs: MEDICATION TIME WITH BUDDYMildred Ratched http://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-34548649946881508212010-03-01T06:53:50.764-06:002010-03-01T06:53:50.764-06:00*nods head in agreement with all prior statements....*nods head in agreement with all prior statements.<br /><br />one thing i can add from personal experience is that with trolls like these, you have to be the one to sever the connection and KEEP it severed. open that door just a nano-crack and these people will just bull their way right through it and knock you over in the process....The Darker Sidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13980716797045688704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-60720799124198796632010-02-26T12:14:57.821-06:002010-02-26T12:14:57.821-06:00Vital, honesty is always appreciated here ...in an...Vital, honesty is always appreciated here ...in any form!Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-22051895150046961122010-02-26T11:04:09.509-06:002010-02-26T11:04:09.509-06:00I agree with everyone here, banish him and be done...I agree with everyone here, banish him and be done with it. Life has enough shitholes no sense in spending time in his. Sorry, today is turning out to be a very blunt speaking day for me.<br /><br />Thank you for stopping by my blog and I am very flattered that you have me on your list that you follow.<br /><br />Vital.~Vital~https://www.blogger.com/profile/00417482765496279857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-48448982248864913822010-02-26T11:01:56.928-06:002010-02-26T11:01:56.928-06:00Candy, thanks for returning the favor and yes, I d...Candy, thanks for returning the favor and yes, I definitely don't need a cancer growing in any part of me.<br /><br />Laoch, I know what seems to be simple sometimes isn't when it comes to people we've know what seems like forever, but I've started putting my own welfare first and I do know what the right thing is. I did it 4 months ago. I guess I just needed to hear it from others for it to really make sense so I'd continue doing it. <br /><br />What happened in Spaces totally sucked and was preventable. I can't believe MSN let it happen. They lost so many great bloggers due to the troll population getting out of hand.Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-73027149660795040002010-02-26T09:42:45.811-06:002010-02-26T09:42:45.811-06:00Loach: I couldn't agree more, and "Spaces...Loach: I couldn't agree more, and "Spaces" is a perfect example.jnutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348848857787520233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-15392000160447261042010-02-26T08:21:38.186-06:002010-02-26T08:21:38.186-06:00It is simple really. Once a person abuses you by ...It is simple really. Once a person abuses you by threatening you, you must excise them from your life. To readmit them just empowers them and in the long run invites more bad conduct. While this may seem harsh and extreme any other approach invites co-dependency and misery. The best thing to do is to structure your life and your organizations to have only people who contribute joy and kindness.<br /><br />An apt example of this might be Spaces, which had a nice community that was eventually destroyed by unhappy trolls. Spaces had no effective tools to allow its users to effectively bar them so they eventually wore people down and the community is mostly gone now. Don't let that happen to your other productive community.Sultanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506141014376919585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-59472174220815000912010-02-26T06:25:25.858-06:002010-02-26T06:25:25.858-06:00Mildred honey, some people ar just like cancer and...Mildred honey, some people ar just like cancer and if you let them, they grow bigger until they take over and kill you.<br /><br />You are in remission from that particular cancer, best to stay that way. The world is full of non-toxic people.<br /><br /><br />Thanks for stopping by my blog.Candy's daily Dandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18172746492146546253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-43848531465947926952010-02-25T17:02:01.469-06:002010-02-25T17:02:01.469-06:00there is your answer, then.
you probably know ex...there is your answer, then. <br /><br />you probably know exactly what you need to do, but doing it without bringing more drama is where the problem lies.<br /><br />if he never been any different than he is right now, the decision should be easy. people don't really change...certainly not after so many years.<br /><br />if all your other friends feel the same way about the man, it should be easier, as you all could present a united front.jnutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348848857787520233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-67351863382678481452010-02-25T16:48:14.597-06:002010-02-25T16:48:14.597-06:00I forgot to say the threat was both legal and phys...I forgot to say the threat was both legal and physical. He's used to bullying people and I don't bully very well. I never have.Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-86754226027485808402010-02-25T16:45:53.376-06:002010-02-25T16:45:53.376-06:00The website benefits many people so I wouldn't...The website benefits many people so I wouldn't remove it due to him being a horse's ass. He acts out when he needs attention and is very narcissistic. You know...he claims to love greater than anyone in history ever has, to suffer the most, etc etc It's all about him! It all means that the rest of us who he claims to be his friends don't understand him at all because we can't know the depth of his feelings. He was having a bad day that was his excuse for threatening me...WTF???? Who gives a flying fuck about his bad day? I've known him for almost 40 years and he's always been the same way, but the stuff we did when we were younger looks really stupid when it's done at our age. I want to scream at him and tell him to grow the fuck up, but it would fall on deaf ears.Mildred Ratched https://www.blogger.com/profile/04705394337558739078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9346548.post-66472290191809134332010-02-25T16:32:47.701-06:002010-02-25T16:32:47.701-06:00first off...don't you just hate drama at our a...first off...don't you just hate drama at our age?...well, I'm older than you, but you know what I mean.<br /><br />I dont exactly know what I'd do since I don't know all the details, but I do know that if if I were in your situation, I'd simply delete the website. There you go, fucker! Happy?<br /><br />If the website is too important to you, I'd go on instinct where he is concerned. Is it a legal threat? A physical threat? Both?<br /><br />I do not believe in giving limitless "second" chances. If I'm continually hurt because of someone's behavior, then I have to take control and protect myself...emotionally (and physcially, if need be).<br /><br />It's sad, I know, but, dammit, sometimes you have to think of yourself FIRST!<br /><br />One thing I truly don't want to be is an enabler of any kind. Open the door to this man and you set yourself up for more pain.*<br /><br />*I'm really good at giving advice. I'm not real good at taking it.jnutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348848857787520233noreply@blogger.com