Tuesday, November 22, 2022

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO THOSE FAR AND NEAR

I don't remember any one particular Thanksgiving while I was growing up.  It's more an accumulation of all of them rolled up into one pleasant memory that makes me smile. The song "over the river and through the woods to Grandmother's house we go" definitely was the theme of the day for my family.  Yes, over the Penobscot River and through Brewer to the picturesque countryside of Holden was the route to my grandmother's house where a feast always awaited us.  Sometimes winter had already begun and the landscape was delicately draped with snow.  My brothers and I were always filled with anticipation of the exquisite meal we would eat and the days ahead that led to the grand finale, Christmas. 

My Nana's house was filled with delicious holiday aromas from the pumpkin and apple pies.  My guilty pleasure was the suet pudding soaked with hard sauce.  The dessert was so rich and flavorful, I could only eat a small serving even though I always wanted more.  The hard sauce was spiked with a splash or two of my grandfather's whisky so I felt all grown up eating it. Cinnamon and other spices masked the smell of the turkey roasting in the oven and the medley of garden-grown vegetables on the stove. Native-grown McIntosh apples would fill the apple pies and sweeten the day as their flavor mingled with the vanilla ice cream slowing melting atop the warm pie.  Their aroma is so distinctive that I could always tell if they were being sold in a store and now whenever I smell them, I'm instantly transported back to autumn in Maine when the orchards are bustling with business. 

There with her colorful bib apron on, Nana was the captain of her kitchen and always busy making sure everyone present was thoroughly sated. As she baked the pies, she always baked one pumpkin pie just for herself and she would eat it while preparing the rest of the Thanksgiving dinner. She rarely used a recipe, yet everything she made was baked to perfection. Her culinary expertise was strictly from instinct and the experience she had mastered many years before made her like some legendary figure from a Norman Rockwell illustration in my mind.

My choice from the turkey was always the wings, but when my Great Aunt Leah, one of my grandmother's sisters dined with us, I had to share the wings because they were her favorite as well. I never minded and to this day whenever I eat poultry, I always announce out loud that this one is for Aunt Leah as I eat one wing for me and one wing for her.  I know she'd like it that she's still remembered and included in all our holiday meals. Nana piled our plates beyond capacity, but no matter how much we ate, everyone always had room for a little dessert and then a little nap before going home. Nana always told me that my eyes were bigger than my stomach.  I suppose she was right, but on holidays even a child can have a hollow leg and be a bottomless pit. 

As the table was cleared and the food put away, my brothers and I did the dishes while the adults went into the living room to take a much needed breather. Nana always saved the paper tablecloth so I could cut out the turkeys and other Thanksgiving pictures printed on the tablecloth.  By the time I was done cutting, it was late in the afternoon and time to return home back through the woods and over the river to Walter Street we would go, but each time I went to Nana's house before I would leave, I always made sure I signed her guest book she kept on the desk in the corner of her living room. Doing that always made me feel as special as the others who had been guests in her house.  I'm sure the thought never crossed her mind to tell me not to do that because it was only for guests.  After all, I was her only granddaughter and I'm sure she indulged me in many, many ways.

*Repost from April 4, 2019

28 comments:

  1. my maternal grandmother would cook exquisite meals like that for the major holidays (easter, thanksgiving, xmess). other sundays, she would dial it back just a little. she too cooked without recipes and without modern appliances like a cuisinart. she had no dishwasher other than her two hands. she has been gone 31 years now.

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    1. Thank you for joining me in my trip down memory lane and for sharing your memories. My grandmother died in November 1974 only about 6 months before my first child was born. I always regretted that she never was able to meet and love her great grandchildren.

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  2. Precious memories. No doubt triggered by scent, by season...
    We don't celebrate Thanksgiving, and I never knew any relative so my eyes are a touch green.
    My mother (a skilled and inventive cook) didn't use recipes either.

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    1. Thanksgiving actually shouldn't be celebrated due to what our founding fathers did to Native Americans, but nonetheless its celebrated and is a great way to overeat to the point of being in a coma.

      If you don't mind me asking...why didn't you know any relative? Did you live far away from them?

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    2. My father was a German Jew. His relatives disappeared in the war I believe. He did not/could not talk about it or them. I don't even know if he had siblings, much less what happended. My mother was estranged from her English family (who I didn't even discover still lived until after her death).
      Families are complicated beasts.

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    3. Yes, families are complicated beasts!

      I did the DNA testing through ancestry.com and found all sorts of relatives I never knew I had. Is there anything like that "down under"? If so, you should look into doing it.

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    4. Some day I will, but relatives will be in the UK and Europe.

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    5. Sigh! I'll be your cousin or sister or aunt or your aunt's aunt. Just call me Aunt Millie or Cousin Mildred or Hey you!

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  3. What a lovely, yummy, satisfying memory. And good for you kids doing the dishes! I always liked the drumsticks best. ;-)

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    1. Ha!Ha!Ha! My mother would have slapped us silly if we had tried to get out of doing dishes after a meal. I know that is probably a foreign concept for kids today.

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  4. Thighs is my thing. I love to eat thighs.

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    1. After the wings I go to the thighs...more meat and they aren't dry like breasts usually are.

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  5. Hi Mildred - thanks for leaving a comment at my blog; I've answered it fully there but the short version is Yes, anyone can join in on Poetry Monday and we'd love to have you give it a try!

    And after reading this post of yours, I'm craving Thanksgiving dinner :D

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    1. Thanks for answering my question and as time permits, I try my hand at Poetry Monday.

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  6. Wonderful memories, Mildred. Thanks for sharing. What made you think about Thanksgiving? It has a whole new meaning for me because my daughter was born right before it so it feels like Thanksgiving is an afterthought these days. Take care.

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    1. Like most things I blog about, Thanksgiving was just a fleeting thought that turned into a blog post.

      My oldest son was born right before Thanksgiving so I know what you mean.

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  7. What a nice memory. We had 1/2 table of all the Italian things we made to celebrate and the turkey and other things y'all love on the other side of the table. I didn't eat that side. I hate turkey. The sides were, eh, to me so I stuck with the stuff I knew and loved, the Italian thanksgiving until I was 12 and realized that we were weird. Then I became very self consciouis of my immigrant family. Then I ate some of those things but couldn't stomach turkey. It's funny how my immigrant family isn't embarressing to me now. Ah kids

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    1. I remember years ago I had three Thanksgiving dinners to eat and one of them was Italian food. It was wonderful but I don't know where I put all that food. Honestly I must have gained 20 ponds after those three meals...no lie!

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    1. My grandmother was an angel and I miss her to this day.

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    2. I should say she was an angel who cooked like a master chef! lol

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  9. I vanished. I miss you. I'm sorry. I hope that someday you'll forgive me, but today I wish you all the holiday love you can hold inside your heart.

    Robert Delaney Bolton (jnuts)
    wherethewoodbinetwineth.wordpress.com

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  10. You can’t see me, but I’m smiling and all is fine in the world today.

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