Monday, August 03, 2020

SCATTERED THOUGHTS

One of my favorite reading materials while in the "*library/reading room" is the Reader's Digest. This morning I found an editorial that stood out to me.

A Crash Course In Commencement Speeches
As someone who worked at a university for 20 years, I find it appalling that a celebrity should demand $100,000 to give a ten minute speech in front of a group that may never be able to pay off student loans. Also, shame on schools for paying those amounts, especially when they raise tuition every year.
-Robert Austin
Baltimore, Maryland

*bathroom



Of my three adult children, two of them are still paying off student loans. For anyone who chooses to go to college, being saddled with a mountain of debt usually comes with it unless a person comes from a wealthy family or is fortunate enough to have some other avenue of paying for tuition, books and other expenses while attending college. The days of merely working your way through college seem to have disappeared or if it does still exist people are guarding it as a state secret.

This may be getting off subject, but I think back to when my niece was looking into colleges. She applied to some of the top colleges in the country. She was accepted at Princeton and really wanted to go there, yet her school guidance counselor talked her into staying in the state of Maine and going there. WTF? She graduated with the 3rd highest GPA in the state of Maine and she didn't go to Princeton? Who does that?

Her counselor felt too many young people leave Maine and that's true because there's so little there for them after they graduate. Maine isn't a wealthy state by any means. Its nickname is "Vacationland" because for about 5 months it's absolutely perfect minus the black flies (the Maine state bird) and a few other irritants here and there. Do tourists count as an irritant? Ha! Don't ask a *Mainiac that!

*a person born in Maine

I suppose her counselor was doing what she thought was the right thing to do and looking at my niece now who has a family, yes, the counselor did the right thing because Maine is a great place to raise a family.  But at the time...Princeton? Geez! So where was she talked into going? You probably wouldn't have ever heard of the college, yet it’s a very prestigious school. Bates College famous alumni include Robert Frost, Robert Kennedy, Bryant Gumbel, David Hasselhoff, Olympia Snowe, Edmund Muskie, Minoru Yamasaki (designer of the first World Trade Center) and William Henry Vanderbilt III just to name a few.  The last time I checked it costs more to go to Bates than it does to go to Harvard. I guess as with anything it isn't how much it costs, it's what you do with it after you finish. My niece has a wonderful career and a wonderful family, yet she opted to stay in Maine. I applaud her for doing that.

Now, to come full circle to those celebrities who demand outrageous speaking fees at commencement ceremonies. I can't help but feel how out of touch they are with the rest of the world. Some have no idea how the common person lives or if they did start with humble beginnings, they've forgotten those roots along the way. I applaud people like Sean Penn who get in the trenches and work with the people.  As of late, Penn has been giving free COVID-19 tests in the U.S. amid the COVID-19 pandemic. People like him try to help in a crisis. Look at President Carter and his wife, Rosalyn. President Carter is 95. Rosalyn is 92. Since 1984, they have partnered with Habitat for Humanity to build, repair or renovate nearly 4,300 homes for people in need across the globe.


I'm all over the place today, aren't I? I guess the old ADHD is kicking in and I can't focus. So that means I had better get dressed and go outside and get right with the birds and my plants. I've got mulch to spread and landscape timbers to put down and drill. I need to go to the nursery and see if they have their fall plants in yet. Yesterday I ordered a TON of spring bulbs that'll be here later in the fall.  I have my eye on a red crepe myrtle at Lowe's and a pink hibiscus. I have just about every other color, but I don't have pink. I have a list of roses I need to order this winter. I want to order the award-winning rose for the year each one of my children were born and then I have a list of others I like. I love roses. I guess I won't have much yard left once I'm done, but that's okay. There'll be less grass to mow, but more plants to fertilize and weed. Six of one. Half a dozen of another. Work is work and off I go!

24 comments:

  1. When I went to university in Canada 45 years ago, the Student Loan program limited where recipients could attend university. You could only get a loan to attend a university in the province in which you lived. So you couldn't go anywhere in Canada. The only way you could get a loan to attend a university in another province was if your own provincial universities did not offer the particular degree you were studying for. It was quite rare to be able to go to an out-of-province university unless you were rich and didn't need student loans. I did all my university training in my own province as a result.

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    1. I guess they cut down on loan debt that way. I'm curious. What was your degree?

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  2. Sean Penn also just married a kid younger than his own daughter. But you are correct look what he did in Haiti? Now free testing. He doesn't go out seeking the media to tell them about it either or so it seems.
    You look great in that photo! Honestly all bloggers were really working, sewing, gardening etc this weekend. Ya'll making me feel guilty for my long hot lazy weekend.

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    1. Some celebs have their hearts in the right place and I guess he must like "younger" women.

      Thank you, I took that photo last week when it was pouring rain and I ducked into my car. I was pretty wet when I took it. I'm surprised no one said anything about my Stay Puff Marshmallow Man Ghostbusters T-shirt. Hey, we all deserve a lazy day or weekend. You make me feel guilty because I have AC

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  3. Our Government has just dramatically increased university fees. And of course none of their children will ever struggle to pay the debt, and will certainly never decide that they simply can't afford to take it on. Hiss and fucking spit.
    And yes, like you I turn to the garden (and the birds) for solace. Often. Blood, sweat and tears (and money) go into my garden and it is worth it.

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    1. We're so much alike in many ways yet live so far apart. Isn't it weird?

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    2. I am so very grateful to have found a weird tribe to belong to...

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    3. And I'm grateful that you found us. You have such a special and an important voice here. I always enjoy hearing from you and getting your point of view on any subject.

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  4. Dat u in da pic? If so ... "Hi" ... my blogger name is ^.^ ... my legal name is Chris :)

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    1. Hi Chris! Nice to meet you and yes, it's me. I occasionally show my face around here. My legal name is Karen.

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  5. My youngest is paying for her college by doing military duty. She's a medic with the Army National Guard Reserves.

    Yes, i agree that demanding such huge fees and being so out of touch is a sad and sorry state that many celebrities are in.

    Good luck with your yard, it sounds like it will be wonderful once you are done. My black thumb salutes you!

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    1. Your daughter is a smart cookie getting her education that way. More people should do that, but I think they don't because they don't want to obligate themselves to the military.

      Those huge speaking fees are just pure greed and anyone whether it be a college or some company who pays them is foolish. Yes, a person has a right to some sort of compensation, but $100,000 seems a little steep to me.

      Thanks. I think next year my yard will start looking like I want it to look. I've been working at it for about 3 years now. Before that I just really didn't care and that's a shame because after all these years I could have had a spectacular yard. Oh well! better late than never! Right?

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  6. I hope you accomplish every last one of those wonderful garden plans.

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  7. There's an alternative to the zombie apocalypse -- voting Democratic. If they get the presidency and both Houses, they at least might do something about student debt. Besides, the Trumpanzees are a kind of zombie apocalypse already.

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    1. You know what I want more than anything? I just want to be able to feel like this country isn't as divided as it has been the last four years under Trumplethinskin. I know we're never going to be completely unified because we have too many people like Trump who pull at the fabric and try to tear it. I agree voting Democratic is a huge step forward in so many ways and I only hope people get off their asses and do it for all the reasons that matter most...not for their hatred of Trump but for their love of their country and their Constitution.

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  8. Thank you. Than k you and I love you right back!

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  9. We could only afford to send One Kid to College, she Worked full time and went to School full time to do it, pay 1/3, we paid a 1/3 and her Bio Mom and Stepdad paid the other 1/3... so all of us were in Debt for a long time to pay it off! *LOL* I think higher education should be funded by Govt. Grants for those Students who show enormous potential, regardless of their Economic situation. Those are the great Minds that otherwise might go to Waste because they simply got Priced Out of receiving the Education/Degrees they needed to be most Beneficial to their Society/Nation. Investing in our Young People pays Dividends... neglecting them will cost far more... so it's Pay now or Pay later.

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    1. Maybe someday college and health care will be like other countries have it for their citizens...a right as being a citizen.

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